{"id":1999,"date":"2010-12-05T09:58:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-05T08:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shailina.se\/blog\/2010\/12\/05\/kalender-5-desember-hva-er-kjaerlighet\/"},"modified":"2015-04-10T12:24:47","modified_gmt":"2015-04-10T10:24:47","slug":"kalender-5-desember-hva-er-kjaerlighet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999","title":{"rendered":"Kalender 5 desember &#8211; Hva er kj\u00e6rlighet?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Selvklart m\u00e5tte det v\u00e6re en dyp og filosofisk sak \u00e5 fundere over s\u00e5nn tidlig p\u00e5 morgenkvisten. <br \/>Men jeg f\u00e5r vel gj\u00f8re mitt beste i \u00e5 sette ord p\u00e5 dette da. <\/p>\n<p>Hva er Kj\u00e6rlighet? Jeg m\u00e5 jo selvklart svare ut fra eget perspektiv. <\/p>\n<p>For meg er kj\u00e6rlighet tillit, respekt og kommunikasjon. <br \/>Det er viljen til \u00e5 konstant jobbe med seg selv og forholdet, slik at uenigheter redes ut og forholdet blir balansert s\u00e5 begge har det bra i det. For meg er det \u00e5 gi og ta, om \u00e5 kunne dele av seg selv, kunne stille krav i sm\u00e5 doser og f\u00e5 krav p\u00e5 seg tilbake. <\/p>\n<p>Det er en gjensidig omtanke for hverandre, og et \u00f8nske om \u00e5 beskydde og passe p\u00e5 den andre. <\/p>\n<p>Kj\u00e6rlighet er \u00e5 kunne ha fettete h\u00e5r og slitte joggebukser hjemme, kr\u00f8lle seg usexy opp i sofaen og vite at man er elsket likevel. <br \/>Det er \u00e5 kunne ha en kvise midt p\u00e5 nesa, og ens elskede synes du er kjempefin like forbasket. <br \/>Det er \u00e5 ikke beh\u00f8ve \u00e5 pynte seg med sminke og siste mote for \u00e5 v\u00e6re tilstrekkelig. <\/p>\n<p>Kj\u00e6rlighet er om \u00e5 kunne v\u00e6re seg selv og likevel bli elsket for det. <br \/>Kj\u00e6rlighet er n\u00e5r man midt i en krangel sier og f\u00e5r h\u00f8re &#8220;jeg er fryktelig sint p\u00e5 deg, skuffet over deg og s\u00e5ret, men jeg elsker deg likevel&#8221;. <br \/>Kj\u00e6rlighet er n\u00e5r man setter seg ned og rydder opp i en krangel f\u00f8r man g\u00e5r og legger seg. <\/p>\n<p>Jeg f\u00e5r liksom ikke helt fram ordene jeg har inni meg, men jeg har i alle fall gitt det et tappert fors\u00f8k. <\/p>\n<p>\u2665\u266a\u266b\u2022*\u00a8*\u2022.\u00b8\u00b8\u2764\u00b8\u00b8.\u2022*\u00a8*\u2022\u266b\u266a\u2665\u266a\u266b\u2022*\u00a8*\u2022.\u00b8\u00b8\u2764\u00b8\u00b8.\u2022*\u00a8*\u2022\u266b\u266a<\/p>\n<p>Tjingeling! <\/p>\n<p>\/\/Rita<\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-official sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Del dette:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><div class=\"fb-share-button\" data-href=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" data-layout=\"button_count\"><\/div><\/li><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share\" class=\"twitter-share-button\" data-url=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" data-text=\"Kalender 5 desember - Hva er kj\u00e6rlighet?\" data-via=\"fyllepenna\" >Tweet<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"#\" class=\"sharing-anchor sd-button share-more\"><span>Mer<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><div class=\"sharing-hidden\"><div class=\"inner\" style=\"display: none;\"><ul><li class=\"share-pinterest\"><div class=\"pinterest_button\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fshailina.se%2F%3Fp%3D1999&#038;media=http%3A%2F%2Fshailina.se%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2020%2F03%2Fcropped-IMG_20200114_224456-scaled-2-180x180.jpg&#038;description=Kalender%205%20desember%20-%20Hva%20er%20kj%C3%A6rlighet%3F\" data-pin-do=\"buttonPin\" data-pin-config=\"beside\"><img src=\"\/\/assets.pinterest.com\/images\/pidgets\/pinit_fg_en_rect_gray_20.png\" \/><\/a><\/div><\/li><li class=\"share-linkedin\"><div class=\"linkedin_button\"><script type=\"in\/share\" data-url=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" data-counter=\"right\"><\/script><\/div><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><li class=\"share-skype\"><div class=\"skype-share\" data-href=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" data-lang=\"en-US\" data-style=\"small\" data-source=\"jetpack\" ><\/div><\/li><li class=\"share-pocket\"><div class=\"pocket_button\"><a href=\"https:\/\/getpocket.com\/save\" class=\"pocket-btn\" data-lang=\"en\" data-save-url=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" data-pocket-count=\"horizontal\" >Pocket<\/a><\/div><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><li class=\"share-reddit\"><div class=\"reddit_button\"><iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.reddit.com\/static\/button\/button1.html?newwindow=true&width=120&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fshailina.se%2F%3Fp%3D1999&amp;title=Kalender%205%20desember%20-%20Hva%20er%20kj%C3%A6rlighet%3F\" height=\"22\" width=\"120\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/li><li class=\"share-tumblr\"><a class=\"tumblr-share-button\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tumblr.com\/share\" data-title=\"Kalender 5 desember - Hva er kj\u00e6rlighet?\" data-content=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" title=\"Del p\u00e5 Tumbl\"data-posttype=\"link\">Del p\u00e5 Tumbl<\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button\" href=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999&amp;share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klikk for \u00e5 sende dette med e-post til en venn\"><span>E-post<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-print\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-print sd-button\" href=\"http:\/\/shailina.se\/?p=1999\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Klikk for \u00e5 skrive ut\"><span>Skriv ut<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Selvklart m\u00e5tte det v\u00e6re en dyp og filosofisk sak \u00e5 fundere over s\u00e5nn tidlig p\u00e5 morgenkvisten. 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